Tremblr FM-T vs The Handy, which stroker to pick
A desktop Bluetooth stroker against a handheld WiFi one. Here is how to choose for ToyControl.
The Tremblr FM-T and The Handy are both high-end strokers, but they sit at opposite ends of two choices at once: desktop versus handheld, and Bluetooth versus WiFi.
The two strokers
- Tremblr FM-T: a mounted desktop stroker with suction, on Bluetooth. Around $300.
- The Handy: a handheld stroker on WiFi. Around $280.
How they differ
The FM-T is the toy ToyControl was built around. It is the most precisely supported, it adds suction, and it connects locally over Bluetooth. The Handy is handheld rather than mounted, connects over WiFi through a cloud service, and has very broad VR content support, though ToyControl's WiFi support for it is still in development. See Bluetooth vs WiFi sex toys.
Pick the Tremblr FM-T if
- You want the best, most precisely supported ToyControl experience.
- You want suction and a mounted setup.
- You prefer a fully local Bluetooth connection.
Pick The Handy if
- You want a handheld toy and WiFi reach across your home.
- You watch a lot of Handy-targeted VR content.
- You accept the in-development state of ToyControl's WiFi support.
Verdict
For a ToyControl-first user, the FM-T is the stronger choice today. The Handy makes sense if its handheld, WiFi form genuinely suits your setup. See The Tremblr FM-T, a full review.
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